Destin-Fort Walton Wedding Checklist

Planning a wedding is no small feat. The Destin-Fort Walton Beach Convention Center professional event planning team has compiled a timeline and checklist to help you meet important milestones in planning all aspects of your wedding including ceremony, reception, guest accommodations, and more.

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12 Months

  • Determine your budget

  • Make a guest list

  • Hire a wedding planner

  • Decide formality and overall theme

  • Select the caterer and venue

11 Months

  • Choose color theme and start thinking of overall design

  • Hire vendors who book up quickly, including photographer, band, DJ, and videographer

10 Months

  • Start shopping for your wedding dress

  • Book hotel room blocks for guests

  • Create your wedding website

  • Take engagement photos

  • Start looking at invitations

9 Months

8 Months

  • Register for gifts

  • Select the bridesmaids' dresses and schedule fittings within the month

  • Meet with potential florists

7 Months

  • Book the rehearsal dinner venue

  • Hire the ceremony musicians

  • Order rental items, such as specialty chairs, linens, draping, lounge furniture, white dance floor, etc.

  • Hire an officiant

6 Months

  • Hire a lighting technician

5 Months

  • Book transportation for guests, if needed

  • Book the bride and groom's transportation (limo, specialty car, etc.)

  • Book the honeymoon

  • Order a passport if you’re honeymooning abroad

  • Buy or rent the groom’s tuxedo

  • Begin premarital counseling

4 Months

  • Have your final tasting with the caterer

  • Choose your cake

  • Buy wedding bands

  • Select groomsmen's attire and schedule fittings within the month

  • Have a hair and makeup trial

3 Months

  • Order the invitations and hire calligrapher

  • Create or plan your menu

  • Brainstorm guest favors and gift bags

  • Book a photo booth rental

  • Write your vows

  • Select readings for the ceremony

  • Meet with the officiant and invite him or her to the rehearsal dinner

  • Start crafting any DIY items if you haven’t already

2 Months

  • Send the wedding invitations (with RSVPs due one month before the wedding)

  • Send out rehearsal-dinner invitations (these can be included with the wedding invitations if you like)

  • First dress fitting

  • Pick up your marriage license

  • Buy wedding party gifts

  • Do a floral mock-up with your florist

  • Give the song selections to your band or DJ

  • Buy all small items

1 Month

  • Assemble gift bags

  • Pay your vendors in full

  • Create a seating chart

  • Order or make your escort cards and place cards

  • Have a final venue walk-through

  • Put cash in tip envelopes for your planner/delegate to distribute

  • Break in your wedding shoes

Final Week

  • Refresh your hair color

  • Get your eyebrows done

  • Get a manicure/pedicure

  • Get a massage (Why not make it a couple's massage?)

  • Final dress fitting (A friend or bridesmaid should come with you so she can learn how to bustle the train if your dress requires it.)

  • Pack your bags for the honeymoon, and confirm your travel arrangements (Don’t forget your passport if you’re leaving the country!)

  • Complete any edible crafting.

  • Clean your ring (Head to your jeweler to get your engagement ring professionally clean so it’s extra sparkly on your wedding day.)

  • Chase any RSVP stragglers and deliver the final head count

  • Clear your work to-do list so you can focus on wedding festivities

  • Practice your vows out loud

  • Write your partner a note

Night Before and Day Of

The night before:

  • Eat a healthy meal

  • Pack a clutch or small big of personal items

  • Drink water

  • Get a good night's sleep

  • Put any boxes, suitcases, bags, and survival kits to bring to the ceremony or reception in the car. (You'll thank us tomorrow!)

The morning of:

  • Stay off your feet as much as possible

  • Eat breakfast

  • Drink even more water

  • Take your dress and veil out of the bag early on, and have someone steam them if needed

  • Lay out all the items (rings, invitations, etc.) that you want your photographer to capture

  • Exchange notes with your partner

  • Say thank you to everyone around you!